Should I care!
As usual, I am late again for my next blog but to me the important thing is that I am writing again. Boy! I love to write as much as I hate to talk ;)... In a way that sentence gives an introduction to the what I am planning to write about today.
I am sure any one reading this bolg already knows and agrees that it is important to have friends in life. Make new friends on hold on to the old ones. That said, how does one make friends in life and for life... What is it that makes a person call another person his/her friend? It is faith? Is it Trust? or is it the comfort that comes from knowing that no matter what, I can depend on this person.
What ever it is, the more important question here is, how does one establish this faith or trust or belief or comfort? I guess the obvious answer is my talking with each other people establish these bond between them. So does that mean that a dumb person can not have any friends?
or was it too dumb a question to ask!!
Anyways I want to say here is that talking to each other is not the only way one can establish these bonds! yes talking is important and if you can talk it probably makes these things happen much faster! If a person doesn't talk a lot or can not talk at all that doesn't mean to say that he/she can not have friends. There are many other forms of communication other than talking.
Sometimes actions speak louder than words!
Personally I feel trusting people is the most difficult thing to do. But when you do decide to trust some one, you will change your thoughts about the person's actions even though he/she doesn't say or explain them in words. Once you start trusting a person your will believe in them and you will try to justify for them and these actions I believe seal the bond of friendship!!
So, SHOULD I CARE what my actions are speaking or how other people are interpreting them. May be or may be not. As I said above, if they trust you then they would want to believe you and they will try to look for a reason to do so and not the other way round.
Come lets be friends!!
you only die once, until them have fun!! :)
I am sure any one reading this bolg already knows and agrees that it is important to have friends in life. Make new friends on hold on to the old ones. That said, how does one make friends in life and for life... What is it that makes a person call another person his/her friend? It is faith? Is it Trust? or is it the comfort that comes from knowing that no matter what, I can depend on this person.
What ever it is, the more important question here is, how does one establish this faith or trust or belief or comfort? I guess the obvious answer is my talking with each other people establish these bond between them. So does that mean that a dumb person can not have any friends?
or was it too dumb a question to ask!!
Anyways I want to say here is that talking to each other is not the only way one can establish these bonds! yes talking is important and if you can talk it probably makes these things happen much faster! If a person doesn't talk a lot or can not talk at all that doesn't mean to say that he/she can not have friends. There are many other forms of communication other than talking.
Sometimes actions speak louder than words!
Personally I feel trusting people is the most difficult thing to do. But when you do decide to trust some one, you will change your thoughts about the person's actions even though he/she doesn't say or explain them in words. Once you start trusting a person your will believe in them and you will try to justify for them and these actions I believe seal the bond of friendship!!
So, SHOULD I CARE what my actions are speaking or how other people are interpreting them. May be or may be not. As I said above, if they trust you then they would want to believe you and they will try to look for a reason to do so and not the other way round.
Come lets be friends!!
you only die once, until them have fun!! :)
posted by Krak @ 9:42 PM
1 Comments:
At Wednesday, April 25, 2007 ,
Unknown said...
Good Kartik! I never new you are a awesome writer. Your analogy is good. I would like to add one comment "don't have any preconceived thoughts about any body"
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